A free live event on Tuesday, October 13th 2026
Same couch. Two phones. Why you still love each other and still feel alone.
A free live event with Nadine and Niels. We have been together for 27 years, and this is not a lecture about date nights.
Tuesday, October 13, 2026
8 PM in Germany, 7 PM in the UK, 2 PM in New York, 11 AM in Los Angeles. We will be live online for about 90 minutes.
If this sounds like your Tuesday night, this evening is for you.
It's 9:45pm on a Tuesday night. You're both on the couch, maybe two feet apart, and you both have your phones in your hands. Nobody is angry, and nothing bad happened today.
The house runs, the bills are paid, the kids are fed, and still you feel alone sitting right next to the person you love.
From his side of the couch, keeping everything running should count for something, and not bringing things up feels like keeping the peace. From her side, she stopped asking a while ago, because she got tired of hearing "fine" every night.
In one evening you will see why the house still works while the two of you feel like roommates, and you will leave with one thing to do on the next normal night.
What we will do together that evening
The evening scene, from both sides
We walk through the couch, the kitchen, the hallway, and the bed where your backs are turned, and what each of you is thinking in that moment but never says out loud.
What we lived through ourselves
About two years with almost no sex, and Sunday evening planning talks that felt like one more chore. We will tell you honestly what actually changed things for us.
What she says and what he hears
Why "I'm tired" and "I'm fine" land so differently on the other end of the couch, why sex can't make up for a day that felt like running a household together, and why a quick "sorry" only counts when the next hour looks different.
Your 20-minute Tuesday
Phones down, one thing you used to love about your evenings together, said out loud. You get the exact first sentence to start it, so you can try it the very next night.
Who this event is for
It is for couples who still love each other and somehow turned into good roommates along the way. You are welcome to join on your own or sit down together. You don't have to turn your camera on or say anything, you can simply listen.
Hi, we are Nadine and Niels.
We have been together for 27 years and married for 22. We are ICF certified coaches since 5 years. We are no therapists.
We lived through the roommate years ourselves, including about two years where the bedroom stopped being ours, and we found our way back to each other. This evening is everything we wish someone had told us back then.
Save your seat for Tuesday, October 13
8 PM in Germany, 7 PM in the UK, 2 PM in New York, 11 AM in Los Angeles. Tell us where to send the link, and it will be in your inbox in a few minutes.
Nadine & Niels
